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“What I want to do [has] really been a spiral of things. At first, I wanted to open my own type of [rehabilitation] place. Kind of like [Alcoholics Anonymous] but with a twist. I wanted to do it where it included the parents, but also the kids because kids get really left out on the whole drug rehab stuff. Parents are [the ones] getting the treatment, but [it should also focus on] how we can help the kids so that when they get older [they don’t follow in their steps]. You can’t be a parent and an addict – they don’t mix. I know because I’ve had someone in my life that was an alcoholic. Basically, I wanted to open up my own place so that we could teach kids how to cope and what to do, I wanted to show them what resources they have. I want to teach them all these techniques so that when they are older, they’re not freaking out when they get 20 phone calls from their dad in an hour or [he] is drunk calling them all the time, or asking for money. Now, I still want that, and I still want to be a therapist but I’m leaning toward going into the Peace Corps and working with kids in the East Caribbean. I have it all figured out, I talked to a recruiter and everything. Recently, I actually worked with Public Safety here. I always [thought] I didn’t like [Public Safety] because I thought they were useless, but actually, a lot of stuff happened recently and they were more helpful than the cops here. They are amazing people. [Most people] know Steve, the night shuttle driver, but there are lot more officers there that are underrated. I’ve decided I want to join the Peace Corps and then come back to Hofstra and hopefully be a Public Safety officer. I would like to be one of the good ones and try and help people out.”
Lily • Oct 26, 2019 at 2:53 pm
Great article that I really enjoyed reading! I’m so glad that Hofstra University offers support for both international and domestic students.
lance johnson • Sep 24, 2019 at 5:12 pm
Sadly, Trump’s contentious issue is yet one more thing that makes being an international student away from home difficult, compounded by our complex culture and language problems. Welcoming and assimilation assistance must come from numerous sources, including the White House, to aid these young people embarking on lifes journey.
Most struggle in their efforts and need guidance from schools international departments, immigration protection, host families, concerned neighbors and fellow students, and even informative books to extend a cultural helping hand.
Something that might help anyone coming to the US is the award-winning worldwide book/ebook "What Foreigners Need To Know About America From A To Z: How to Understand Crazy American Culture, People, Government, Business, Language and More.
Used in foreign Fulbright student programs and endorsed worldwide by ambassadors, educators, and editors, it identifies how foreigners have become successful in the US, including students.
It explains how to cope with a confusing new culture and friendship process, and daunting classroom differences. It explains how US businesses operate and how to get a job (which differs from most countries), a must for those who want to work with/for an American firm here or overseas.
It also identifies the most common English grammar and speech problems foreigners have and tips for easily overcoming them, the number one stumbling block they say they have to succeeding here.
Good luck to all at Hofstra or wherever you study or wherever you come from, because that is the TRUE spirit of the American PEOPLE, not a few in government who shout the loudest! Supporters of intl students must shout louder.